When do our wants become our needs?

I’ve been thinking deeply about it wonder if the shift from “I want” to “I need” is reflecting deeper struggles we are having with feeling heard, respected, or even valued. I’ve spoken to people who think talking about their wants is too idealistic or selfish – they’ve decided that their wants will never be realised or that wanting something is just not enough of a reason to take action; or to expect others to.

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Jamie Kinlochan
What I learned about abortion bans in South Carolina

Abortion laws are made and upheld by men. Organisations who are countering abortion access and organising prayer vigils are led by men. Healthcare services are run by men. Pregnancy happens with the participation of men. I don’t think men should tell women what to do with their bodies, nor do I think that men should leave the work of protecting and accessing abortion to women. That’s why I’m a man, writing about abortion.

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Jamie Kinlochan